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Tuesday, 7 February 2017

YOUR CHILDREN ARE ETERNAL TREASURES



Many years ago, I studied Anne Ortlund’s Disciplines of the Beautiful Woman with a group of ladies. We discussed Mrs. Ortlund's ideas and agreed that, apart from a lot of good ideas for us being disciplined in our lives, she was off base regarding our priorities as women. For our priorities are clear in God's Word: 


  • God
  • Husband
  • Children
  • Home
  • Church
  • Outreach



We decided on this in light of Titus 2 and other verses, and I believe that this is, indeed, the best way to prioritise our lives. Outside ministries are fine, provided that your husband agrees and is supportive of it and that your children and household duties are not neglected. Our biggest ministry is to our own family. We shortchange them when we are neglectful of them due to over commitment and tiredness. 

How can it honour the LORD for us to give all our energy to others when our marriages may suffer and our children run wild? We end up giving the first fruits of our energy and commitment to others. I believe that we should see any form of ministry outside the home as secondary to the ministry of Mother and Wife. If duties are in order at home and your husband is not feeling neglected, then I believe you can engage in outside ministry with a happy heart. 



Many women do not see the importance of their role as Mother and Wife and feel frustrated in not being able to participate in outside ministry. God has placed us in a ministry precisely because we are wives and/or mothers. We don't have to be discontented and looking for other ministries...we have our calling already. I think placing priorities outside the biblical order jeopardises our happiness in our homes and families, and you can believe me, even service in ministry can be a lonely experience if you have lost those closest to you. When you put God's priorities in order, He is being served first, second, third, fourth, and fifth. He is all in all and in everything you do. 



We need to invest more time in our marriages and families, not less, and to God will be all the glory when we raise godly children--future warriors for the LORD and bearers of His name. 

Enjoy your calling, ladies; you are investing in eternal treasures.

© Glenys Robyn Hicks

“See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be unwise, but understand what the will of the Lord is.” Ephesians 5:15-17

4 comments:

  1. I appreciate this reminder of how important it is to minister right in our homes! Sometimes I have to remind myself that investing in my husband and children is exactly what I should be doing in this season. I truly think I'll always be glad that I spent these days encouraging, praying for, and taking care of my family - not only in the coming years, but in eternity as well!

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    1. I have no regrets being there for my children either... :)

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  2. A lovely post and a delightful picture. That simple message setting our the order of priorities for Godly womanhood is something I hope I can instil into my daughter and which all young Christian women should be taught in the context that it is as you say our God given ministry far more important than any career or work outside the home.

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    1. Thank you for commenting today. Blessings!

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